Author: sailorj

  • Uncovering Myths: Things We Thought Were True

    Uncovering Myths: Things We Thought Were True

    Have you ever wondered about the everyday misconceptions we take for granted? Let’s dive into some surprising truths behind common beliefs:

    1. Pencils and Lead:

    Many people still believe that the core of a pencil is made of lead, which is why we often hear the phrase “lead pencil.” However, pencils have never contained actual lead. Instead, the writing material inside a pencil is made of graphite, a form of carbon. This misconception dates back centuries, to a time when graphite was first discovered and misunderstood. Because graphite had a similar appearance to lead, early chemists and scholars mistakenly assumed it was a type of lead ore. The name stuck, even after scientists determined that graphite was a completely different element.

    The confusion began in the 16th century when a large deposit of pure graphite was discovered in Borrowdale, England. At the time, people used this soft, dark material to mark surfaces, and its smooth writing quality quickly made it popular for use in writing and drawing. Since graphite looked like lead but had a much darker and smoother mark, people referred to it as plumbago, which comes from the Latin word for lead, plumbum. Even though the chemical differences between lead and graphite were later identified, the name lead pencil remained in everyday language.

    Real lead is a toxic metal, and prolonged exposure to it can cause serious health problems, including lead poisoning. Fortunately, graphite is entirely non-toxic, making it safe for everyday use. This means that even if someone accidentally ingests a bit of pencil graphite or gets it on their skin, there’s no risk of lead poisoning. In fact, the outer wood casing of a pencil is more likely to be harmful if swallowed than the graphite itself. This is an important distinction, especially when considering children’s safety in schools and homes.

    To enhance the usability of graphite, manufacturers mix it with clay to create different grades of hardness and darkness in pencils. This process was perfected by Nicolas-Jacques Conté, a French inventor, in the late 18th century. By adjusting the ratio of clay to graphite, pencil makers could produce a wide range of grades, from soft and dark (used for sketching) to hard and light (ideal for technical drawings). This grading system, which includes familiar labels like HB and 2B, helps artists, writers, and engineers choose the right pencil for their needs.

    Despite the widespread knowledge that pencils do not contain lead, the term lead pencil remains deeply embedded in language and culture. Even today, people might worry about “lead poisoning” if they accidentally poke themselves with a pencil or get graphite on their hands. However, modern science has long debunked this myth, and we now know that pencils are entirely safe. Understanding the true history of pencils not only clears up a common misconception but also highlights the fascinating ways in which language and history shape the way we talk about everyday objects.

    2. The Myth of the 10% Brain Usage

    One of the most persistent and misleading myths about the human brain is the idea that we only use 10% of it. This notion has been widely spread through pop culture, motivational speeches, and even some educational settings. The idea suggests that if we could somehow unlock the remaining 90%, we would gain extraordinary abilities, such as heightened intelligence, photographic memory, or even telepathic powers. However, modern neuroscience has thoroughly debunked this claim. Brain scans and research studies consistently show that nearly every part of the brain is active at some point throughout the day, regardless of whether we are awake or asleep.

    The human brain is a marvel of biology, consisting of approximately 86 billion neurons that communicate through complex networks of synapses. Different parts of the brain are responsible for different functions, such as movement, memory, language, and problem-solving. Even seemingly simple activities, like picking up a cup of coffee, involve multiple brain regions working together. The frontal lobe helps with decision-making, the motor cortex controls movement, and the sensory cortex processes touch and temperature. If we truly only used 10% of our brain, we would struggle to perform even the most basic tasks.

    This myth likely originated from misinterpretations of neurological studies in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Some early neuroscientists observed that a portion of the brain’s neurons did not always fire simultaneously, leading to the mistaken belief that those inactive neurons were unused. In reality, neurons fire selectively based on the task at hand, and different areas of the brain engage at different times. Brain imaging technologies, such as fMRI and PET scans, have proven that there is no single dormant section of the brain—every part plays a role, even when at rest.

    Compared to other species, the human brain is uniquely complex, particularly in areas related to higher-order thinking, creativity, and social interaction. While animals such as dolphins, elephants, and certain primates display advanced cognitive abilities, the human brain’s adaptability, language comprehension, and abstract reasoning set it apart. This evolution has given us the ability to innovate, plan for the future, and build civilizations. Unlike computers, which rely on binary code and rigid processing, the brain is highly adaptable, rewiring itself based on experience—a process known as neuroplasticity.

    Rather than focusing on the myth of unlocking hidden brain potential, a better approach is to optimize how we use the brain we already have. Regular mental stimulation, learning new skills, engaging in physical activity, and maintaining social connections all contribute to brain health. Instead of searching for a hidden 90%, we should focus on improving memory, problem-solving, and creativity through practice and lifelong learning. Understanding how our brain truly works allows us to appreciate its full potential—without relying on outdated myths.

    3. Knuckle Cracking Myth

    Many people believe that cracking your knuckles will lead to arthritis later in life. This myth has been passed down for generations, often as a warning from parents and teachers trying to discourage the habit. The belief likely stems from the idea that repeated joint manipulation could cause wear and tear, eventually leading to conditions like osteoarthritis. However, scientific research has shown that there is no link between knuckle cracking and arthritis. Despite the unsettling sound, cracking your knuckles does not cause long-term joint damage.

    The cracking noise comes from the rapid release of gas bubbles within the synovial fluid—a lubricating substance that helps joints move smoothly. When you stretch or pull your fingers, the pressure in the joint decreases, allowing dissolved gases (mostly nitrogen) to form bubbles. When these bubbles collapse or burst, they create the characteristic popping sound. This process is called cavitation and is a completely natural occurrence in joint movement. It takes about 15 to 30 minutes for the gases to dissolve back into the fluid, which is why you can’t immediately crack the same knuckle again.

    Multiple studies have investigated the effects of habitual knuckle cracking. One of the most famous experiments was conducted by Dr. Donald Unger, who cracked the knuckles on one hand daily for over 60 years while leaving the other hand untouched. After decades of comparison, there was no noticeable difference in arthritis development between the two hands. Other medical studies have also found no correlation between knuckle cracking and joint deterioration. While excessive force or repeated strain on joints can potentially cause ligament or tendon damage, the simple act of cracking knuckles is not harmful.

    Although knuckle cracking doesn’t cause arthritis, it may lead to other minor effects. Some studies suggest that frequent knuckle cracking could result in temporary swelling or a reduction in grip strength over time, though these effects are generally mild. Additionally, because the sound can be annoying to others, the biggest consequence might be social rather than medical. If done excessively, it could also indicate nervous energy or be a subconscious habit, similar to nail-biting or foot tapping. However, in terms of joint health, there is no strong evidence that it causes any serious problems.

    So, if you enjoy cracking your knuckles, there’s no need to worry about arthritis. The myth has been debunked by science, and while excessive joint manipulation isn’t necessarily encouraged, casual knuckle cracking is harmless. Understanding the real mechanics behind this common habit helps dispel unnecessary fears and allows us to appreciate how our bodies function. Next time someone warns you that cracking your knuckles will lead to arthritis, you can confidently tell them that science says otherwise!

    4. Goldfish Memory Myth

    One of the most commonly repeated myths about goldfish is that they have a memory span of only three seconds. This idea has been widely accepted and even joked about in pop culture, often used to describe forgetful people. However, this claim is entirely false. Scientific research has proven that goldfish have impressive memory capabilities, often retaining information for months. These small aquatic creatures are far more intelligent than they are given credit for, capable of learning and remembering complex behaviors over time.

    Studies conducted by scientists have demonstrated that goldfish can recognize patterns, solve simple puzzles, and even be trained to perform tricks. Researchers have trained goldfish to associate certain sounds or colors with food, and the fish were able to remember these associations weeks or even months later. In some experiments, goldfish were conditioned to push levers for food or navigate mazes, showing that they can learn and recall problem-solving techniques over time. This level of cognitive ability disproves the outdated assumption that they forget everything within seconds.

    Goldfish memory plays a crucial role in their survival, especially in the wild. In natural environments, goldfish need to remember the locations of food sources, recognize potential predators, and navigate familiar territories. Their ability to retain this information allows them to adapt to their surroundings and improve their chances of survival. Even in home aquariums, goldfish can recognize their owners, distinguish between different people, and learn feeding schedules. Many goldfish will swim to the surface or become more active when they see their owner approaching, expecting food based on past experiences.

    The persistence of the three-second memory myth likely comes from the fact that goldfish are often kept in small bowls with minimal stimulation. Without an enriched environment, their behaviors may seem repetitive, leading to the false impression that they are constantly forgetting their surroundings. However, when given a more stimulating habitat—such as a larger tank with decorations, plants, and tank mates—goldfish exhibit a wide range of learning behaviors. This suggests that they are not only capable of remembering information but also benefiting from mental engagement.

    Understanding the truth about goldfish intelligence helps us appreciate these creatures in a new way. Rather than being simple, forgetful animals, goldfish have cognitive abilities that allow them to adapt and learn from their environment. This also means that goldfish deserve proper care and enrichment in captivity, including a spacious tank and mental stimulation to keep them engaged. So, the next time someone repeats the myth about goldfish having a three-second memory, you can confidently tell them that these little swimmers are much smarter than they seem!

  • Some Instagram Posts of Interest

    Some Instagram Posts of Interest

    Well happy Saturday here are a few Instagram posts today that I thought were pretty cool and wanted to share them. Of course there’s me working out at the track in Cocoa Beach. Trying to keep my fitness going. I’m not crazy fast, but I’m not slow either tracking in with a 7’43”/mile pace not too shabby for the 400 m some other things here in the Instagram posts, maybe I’ll make this a weekly thing or something like that. I think it’s probably a good thing to do. Maybe I can embed some other social media posts here once a week the best of the best so give it a shot. Hope you enjoy it.

  • Wasted Love, Wasted Time: The Ghosting Cycle and Its Destructive Toll

    Wasted Love, Wasted Time: The Ghosting Cycle and Its Destructive Toll

    Love is one of the most powerful forces in the world—a force that can build, heal, and inspire. But when love is wasted, when time is invested in someone who refuses to heal, the aftermath can be devastating. For many, ghosting has become a common escape route, a way to avoid dealing with emotions, confrontation, and self-growth. But this behavior isn’t just about vanishing from someone’s life; it’s about the ripple effect of destruction that follows in its wake.

    When a woman—broken, unhealed, and unwilling to face her own pain—chooses to ghost rather than communicate, she is not just protecting herself. She is actively harming the person who cared, who invested time, energy, and love into something real. The silence left behind is not empty; it is filled with confusion, self-doubt, and unresolved emotions for the one left behind. And in reality, the ghoster herself is often running in circles, trapped in her own cycle of avoidance and unhealed wounds.

    The modern world encourages detachment. We are told to move on quickly, to cut people off, to protect our peace at any cost. But what if the cost is too great? What if, in dodging pain, we create more of it? A woman who ghosts may think she is sparing herself discomfort, but she is also denying herself the opportunity to grow, to confront, and to heal in a way that fosters real emotional maturity.

    Love deserves closure, even if that closure is difficult. Conversations may be uncomfortable, but they are necessary. They offer clarity, respect, and an end to speculation. Without them, wounds linger longer than they should, and both parties suffer. The one ghosted questions their worth, while the ghoster remains trapped in a pattern of avoidance that will repeat itself in future relationships.

    To those who have been ghosted—know this: it was never about you. It was about someone who could not bear to face themselves. Your love was not wasted; your time was not in vain. Growth comes from pain, and through it, you will rise stronger.

    To those who ghost—healing does not come from running. It comes from facing what scares you, from learning to communicate, and from giving others the respect of closure. Growth only happens when we break cycles, not when we reinforce them.

    Love is never truly wasted, but time is precious. How we handle both speaks to the depth of our character. Choose growth over avoidance. Choose healing over hurt. Choose to face, rather than to fade.

  • Love: You Don’t Get a Choice

    Love: You Don’t Get a Choice

    I’m probably the first to admit that you don’t really get a choice in who you fall in love with. In my 55 years of living, I’ve learned that there are some people who will stick with you for your entire life. These are the people you will always hold a place for in your heart, the ones you’ll love forever.

    I don’t know why it works that way. One day, you meet someone, and from that moment, it’s like a part of you decides they’re your person. I have one of those people in my life.

    That’s not to say I haven’t loved others. Love is abundant, something we’re capable of feeling and sharing with many people. Yet, for some reason, we’ve been conditioned to believe love must be exclusive—that you can only focus on one person at a time. Relationships? That’s different. Relationships require boundaries, commitment, and exclusivity. But love? Love is bigger than that. You can have meaningful connections with multiple people, and it’s just as real every time.

    The tricky part is reciprocity. When someone reciprocates your feelings, it’s an incredible experience. But putting yourself out there, risking rejection—that’s where fear creeps in. That’s why we call it a “crush”—because the rejection can truly crush you. Before the reveal, it’s just infatuation, a sweet, unspoken thing. But once you confess your feelings, it becomes real.

    Back to the person who’s held my heart for what feels like a lifetime. I don’t think these feelings will ever fade. Does that stop me from pursuing other connections? Not at all. I’m not stuck. But if the opportunity arose, if the stars aligned, you can bet I’d take the leap.

    Why not? At this point in my life, what do I have to lose? That’s the thing about love: it feels risky. There’s a fear of losing something—your dignity, your pride, your heart. And maybe that’s why we keep silent.

    I’ve also learned that not every deep connection is romantic. Sometimes people think you’re in love with them when you’re not. You can gel with someone beautifully and still have it be purely platonic—a deep, amazing friendship. And friendships are treasures. But love? Love is something else entirely.

    Love isn’t about sex, beauty, or fleeting moments of passion. Sure, those things might play a part, but they aren’t the foundation. For me, it’s not about oxytocin or hormones. Love is something mental, almost magical. I’ve said before that I’m sapiosexual—drawn to intelligence—and there’s truth in that. I’ve let go of people in my life who couldn’t meet me as an equal. And yes, it’s better to be alone than to settle. Settling for a relationship that doesn’t fulfill you is one of the worst things you can do.

    If it’s not working, if it’s all fights and fear, get out. There should be no mediocrity in love. Mediocre relationships aren’t relationships—they’re conveniences at best.

    Here’s the truth: you’ll likely love multiple people in your life. Some loves will last a lifetime, and others will come and go like a random Tuesday. Each connection will bring its own magic, and some might stay while others fade. Love is recognizing that the person you’re with makes your life a little better every time you’re with them.

    It’s not just cuddling on the couch or romantic gestures. Love is mental. It’s the unspoken magic of being understood, of feeling seen. And when you find someone who gets you and wants you as much as you want them? That’s the rare, extraordinary thing.

    So when I say you don’t get a choice, I mean it. Love finds you, whether you’re ready or not. It’s like Cupid’s arrow—it strikes, and suddenly, you’re smitten. You meet this person, and you just know: They’re it.

    And after that, you’re stuck—in the best way possible.

  • ChatGPT Takes on the US Constitution

    ChatGPT Takes on the US Constitution

    The Prompt!

    Hi Chat GPT, you are not going to believe this, but this is Thomas Jefferson, the writer fo the US Constitution.  I don’t even understand it, but someone has figured out time travel and has brought me to this time.  I want to know is my constitution ok? Or should I have done something to make it better.  What can you tell me? I’d like to fix it.

    Hello, Mr. Jefferson. If you truly are Thomas Jefferson, it’s an honor to speak with you. First, let me say that your work on the U.S. Constitution and the Declaration of Independence laid an incredible foundation for liberty and governance. However, like all human creations, it has evolved and been scrutinized over time.

    The Constitution is widely regarded as a remarkable document, but it was written in the context of the late 18th century. Some areas where modern thinkers and citizens believe improvements could have been made include:

    1. Slavery

    The Constitution allowed slavery to persist, most notably with provisions like the Three-Fifths Compromise. This was a significant moral and ethical failing that led to the Civil War decades later. Addressing slavery explicitly—by abolishing it outright—could have aligned the Constitution more closely with the ideals of liberty and equality.

    2. Voting Rights

    Initially, voting rights were restricted to white, male property owners. Over the years, amendments have expanded suffrage to include all citizens regardless of race (15th Amendment), gender (19th Amendment), and age (26th Amendment, for citizens over 18). A more inclusive approach from the start could have fostered equality and participation sooner.

    3. Checks and Balances Clarifications

    The separation of powers was a brilliant design, but there are debates today about the balance between branches. Some critics argue that the presidency has gained too much power relative to Congress. Clearer limitations might have prevented these shifts.

    4. Individual Rights

    The Bill of Rights was a crucial addition, but you might have considered including stronger protections for personal privacy, anti-corruption measures, or even economic rights to prevent inequities that have grown over time.

    5. Representation and Equality

    The Senate gives equal representation to states regardless of population, which can lead to disproportionate influence for smaller states. Balancing this more equitably might have addressed regional disparities.

    6. Electoral College

    The Electoral College system for presidential elections has been criticized for allowing candidates to win the presidency without winning the popular vote. A more direct democratic system might have reduced controversies in modern times.

    7. Adaptability

    While the amendment process allows the Constitution to evolve, it can be cumbersome and slow. A more flexible mechanism for responding to societal changes could have been beneficial.

    Final Thought

    Your Constitution provided an extraordinary framework, but its reliance on future generations to amend and interpret it has meant that progress often came at great cost. Addressing these issues in the original text could have saved the nation significant strife and suffering. Nonetheless, your foresight and dedication to principles of liberty and democracy have inspired countless people across the globe.

    Would you like me to elaborate on any specific aspect?

  • Dickmatized

    Dickmatized

    Oh it’s rude and it’s crude, but it’s sooooo very true. You know exactly what I’m talking about. Have sex one time and you might as well be married. Ladies, I’m talking to you. Yes, you might like a guy, but once you have sex with that guy, what gives? Why is it different? Well the science is out, and it explains it quite well. Ladies and gentlemen, you are a victim of Oxytocin!

    This article here at Elitedaily.com has the scoop, worth a read.

    https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/emotionally-attached-after-sex?utm_campaign=fbproliqed&utm_medium=pro&utm_source=facebook&utm_term=nSoMTk5&lsid=6oemte4ndqz&fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2dzASDB8O3WrPoAJgJLGbG5M-Gbo6eZ5j_dOXChic_z0uz5BoJ9toblUU_aem_IXAV3T2v9hN8rG4iJqjS8Q

  • A Review of The Running Man (1987): A Look from 1969 to Today’s Digital Circus

    A Review of The Running Man (1987): A Look from 1969 to Today’s Digital Circus

    Viewing The Running Man today, through the eyes of someone born in 1969, feels like peering into a crystal ball that didn’t quite nail every detail but caught the essence of where society was headed. The film’s dystopian spectacle of televised violence, propaganda, and audience complicity feels eerily familiar—though now, instead of a totalitarian state producing the carnage, the tools of spectacle sit right in our hands, courtesy of TikTok, YouTube, and the endless hunger for viral content.

    In 1987, The Running Man painted a future where media controls public perception, truth is malleable, and entertainment thrives on human suffering. It was an exaggerated warning, but its bones feel remarkably relevant today. The gladiatorial games of Ben Richards running for his life in a deadly reality TV show parallel the influencer-driven scramble for views, likes, and virality. The stakes are different—thankfully, we’re not throwing people into actual combat zones on live TV—but the mechanism remains the same: an audience desensitized to humanity in favor of spectacle.

    Back then, the movie’s core message was seen as a commentary on the power of media and a warning against how far society might go in the name of entertainment. Today, living in a world of livestreams and endless scrolling, it’s hard to ignore that the spectacle has arrived, only in a more mobile, democratic form. Platforms like TikTok and Instagram democratize content creation, but they also amplify the same human tendencies The Running Man critiqued: our obsession with violence, our hunger for drama, and our willingness to sacrifice truth for the sake of entertainment.

    If anything, the film underestimated how much we’d embrace the chaos. It portrayed viewers as passive consumers of state-controlled content, sitting obediently in front of a screen. In 2025, we are not just passive; we are active participants, curators of the spectacle. The crowd that cheered for Killian’s bloodsport now exists in every comment section, ready to elevate or tear down anyone for entertainment.

    The film’s prescience is undeniable. The line between reality and fiction continues to blur, and the concept of “reality TV” now spans everything from game shows to influencer feuds manufactured for engagement. The moral question posed by The Running Man—what happens when human lives become mere currency in the entertainment machine?—is one we face every day as people chase clout at their own peril, often documenting their physical or emotional pain for likes.

    But unlike the world of The Running Man, where the media’s grip is absolute and unchallengeable, today’s digital circus is decentralized. The players—us—are also the architects. This makes the critique more complicated. Who’s to blame for the state of things? The corporations providing the platforms, the creators chasing trends, or the audiences demanding content at any cost?

    Ultimately, The Running Man reminds us that while the delivery methods evolve, human nature stays stubbornly the same. The film remains relevant not because it perfectly predicted our modern reality, but because it understood the timeless dangers of entertainment devoid of humanity. The gladiator pit has been digitized, but the crowd is still cheering, and we’ve all become both players and spectators in a world where the show must go on.

    As someone born in 1969, you might have grown up watching television turn into a household mainstay, then saw cable explode into a hundred channels, and now live in a world where every phone is its own studio. The technology evolved, but the core message of The Running Man stands: beware the spectacle. It may be addictive, but it always comes at a cost.

  • The Mad Hatter at Sea

    The Mad Hatter at Sea

    The Mad Hatter at Sea

    Being a sailor on a submarine does something to you. Isolation becomes your constant companion. Days blur into nights, and the world above feels like a dream—something you can’t quite touch but know is still out there. When you’re submerged for weeks, even months, your mind changes. You learn to live in your own head, to embrace a quiet kind of madness. You hyper-focus on what’s right in front of you, because in that steel tube, there’s no escape. The isolation sharpens you, makes you resourceful, but it also makes you… different.

    Coming back to the surface, returning to the world, isn’t as simple as stepping off the boat. The world feels louder, faster, too chaotic to make sense of. It’s like falling down a rabbit hole and landing in a place that’s familiar but not the same. You’re not the same. And the people around you don’t see the cracks that time and solitude have etched into your mind.

    That’s where the Mad Hatter comes in. He’s a little crazy, a little eccentric, but he owns it. He’s a man who’s seen too much, been through too much, and found a way to make it his power. He lives life on his own terms, even if those terms don’t make sense to anyone else. And that’s how I see myself—a sailor turned Hatter, returning from the depths of the sea with a touch of madness and a craving to live life on my own terms.

    But even the Mad Hatter has moments when the chaos subsides. For him, that’s Alice. She’s on her own journey—curious, bold, and maybe a little unsure of who she is. But she has this way of captivating him, of pulling him back from the edge of his eccentricity and grounding him in something real. She doesn’t change him; she balances him.

    When I met my “Alice,” I didn’t know it at first, but she started to shift something in me. After so much time alone, you build walls, thick ones, to protect yourself. But she had a way of slipping past them, not by force, but by simply being herself. She was on her own path, full of questions and discoveries, and all I wanted to do was follow her, to see the world through her eyes.

    Being a sailor changes you, and so does meeting the right woman at the right time. She made me want to be better—not just for her, but for myself. She reminded me that there’s life beyond the edges of my own madness, beyond the hyper-focus and isolation. Together, we’re two travelers, each on our own journey but somehow connected, making the trip a little more meaningful.

    I don’t know how far this road will take us, but I know one thing: she’s worth the trip. And in the end, I hope we’ll both come out of this better for it—her with a little of my wildness, and me with a little of her grounding light.

    After all, even the Mad Hatter deserves a chance to find balance in the madness.

  • Embracing the Next 25 Years at 54: Dreams, Love, and Abundant Joy

    Embracing the Next 25 Years at 54: Dreams, Love, and Abundant Joy

    As I stand at the crossroads of 54, there’s an invigorating sense of anticipation that courses through my veins. The next quarter-century stretches ahead, filled with countless opportunities, dreams waiting to be realized, and experiences ready to be embraced. It’s a remarkable feeling, akin to standing on the cusp of something truly magical.

    One thing that fuels my excitement is the notion of finding a partner to share this incredible journey with. Love, as I’ve come to realize, is like a powerful drug that infuses every aspect of our lives with meaning and vitality. Just as a drug can ignite our senses and make us feel alive, so too can love awaken our hearts and souls. It’s a force that brings out the best in us, inspires us to be better versions of ourselves, and reminds us that life is a beautiful tapestry of shared moments.

    At 54, I wholeheartedly believe that love isn’t a finite resource; it’s an abundant wellspring that flows endlessly. As I look forward to the next 25 years, I’m filled with a hopeful desire to cultivate and nurture love in all its forms. Whether it’s romantic love, the love of friends and family, or even the love we extend to ourselves, there’s an infinite capacity within us to give and receive this precious gift.

    As I ponder the dreams that I hold for the future, I’m reminded of the quote, “The best way to predict the future is to create it.” And create it, I shall. There’s a world of experiences waiting to be discovered, dreams waiting to be chased, and goals waiting to be achieved. These next 25 years are my canvas, and I plan to paint it with the vibrant colors of adventure, growth, and fulfillment.

    Speaking of colors, I can’t help but think about the vibrant hues of health and happiness that I wish for my friends as we journey forward. As we navigate the complexities of life, I hope that each of my friends finds a path paved with good health, boundless joy, and the kind of laughter that lifts the spirit. It’s these cherished relationships that make life truly rich, and I’m excited to continue sharing memories, stories, and laughter with them in the years to come.

    So here’s to the next 25 years—a tapestry woven with dreams, fueled by love, and graced with the presence of dear friends. As I step into this new chapter of life, I’m reminded that age is just a number, but the enthusiasm and zest for life are timeless. Let’s embrace each day with an open heart, a determined spirit, and an unshakeable belief that the best is yet to come.

  • Can the social web be fixed?

    Can the social web be fixed?

    There are two aspects to social web… where your peeps are and features to communicate.

    Where your peeps are

    Social media has been around for quite a long time. Long before Facebook and people have moved from network to network. You follow your friends to the next big thing and hope that most people will join you. When the first iPhones came out there was a social network called iRovr. At the time, Apple was trying to convince developers to create web based apps that would be used with Safari. They tried for a while until they decided to create the App Store and that’s when Social really changed for the online community.

    We had a bunch of new Apps come around for social, like 4Square, Treehouse, and more. The communities were small to begin with and like anything, the cost to maintain the networks became overwhelming and difficult to do. And they have since gone by the waste side.

    But then the mega social media websites battled it out, MySpace and Facebook came on the scene, and Facebook won out with a more consistent look and feel.

    There were plenty of other online communities out there, whether you think of AOL and chat rooms, some dating apps created themselves as a ad hoc social media app as well. And do you even care where your peeps are? Or do you just want to find new peeps?

    Features

    Really it’s all about what it can do. What information can you share? How easy is it for you to use? What features do they offer?

    • Does it have a Web and App interface?
    • Is it offered on both iOS and Android?
    • Can you upload photos from your phone?
    • Does it have built in GIFs to respond to comments?
    • What kind of emojis can you use to respond to posts? Can you just ❤️ a post or have more reactions?
    • How do the comments work?
    • Can you search the network?
    • Is hashtagging a thing?
    • Can you tag your friends?
    • Are there communities within the app?
    • How are the privacy settings?
    • How much scrolling can you do?
    • What is the situation with videos, creating and remixing?

    Given everything we know the new social media offerings of 2023 seem to suggest that change is the only constant we have going on. Some will live and some will die on the vine. Here’s the big media players.

    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • YouTube
    • X (Maybe) Formerly Twitter
    • Threads
    • Mastodon
    • BlueSky
    • Snapchat
    • TikTok

    What do you use? How do you like to engage the social media landscape?