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  • A Hard Talk

    Pandemic

    It is June, 2020. The United States of America and the World are going through some fundamental core shake up moments.

    The Corona Virus or COVID-19, has been a world wide pandemic causing people to social distance, work from home if able, and millions have become unemployed as a result. This has led to diminished incomes, and increased poverty throughout the world.

    Many businesses won’t come back from this, while new opportunities will reveal themselves as we get moving into the next year.

    George Floyd

    In late May, a black man, George Floyd, was detained by police officers in Minneapolis, pushed to the ground, handcuffed and an officer placed his knee on his throat an kept it there for over 7 minutes while George pleaded for mercy and his life. All of this was photographed.

    The outrage has been felt like a shot heard round the world. People are protesting and marching in the name of George Floyd, but also the many other Black lives that have been killed in police custody. The Black Lives Moment is actively drawing attention to this in a way that sadly, Colin Kaepernick could not do.

    #blacklivesmatter

    You can not hold up a bible and claim to be a good person. Love your neighbor as yourself is fundamental to scripture, even with all the horrible things that is written in that book. It takes more than standing in front of a church with a book in your hand to bring people together. After all, it is written, “Am I my brother’s keeper?” The really story about that passage comes many verses before that, because Cain kills Abel due to his jealousy. This issue is about how we treat our fellow human beings. This issue is how Black people are treated in our society.

    Protesting

    I have heard it said, or seen it written, that no one gets to tell you how to protest. I agree with that sentiment, and I agree with it because unfortunately the biggest changes in this world have come from violence.

    Consider these Articles:

    Let’s face it. This country was founded on violence with a revolutionary war. Then we had a civil war. We fought in Wars around the world, in WWI, WWII, Korea, Vietnam and the Middle East. Whether the violence is internal or external, it seems that violence is part of our history.

    In one of the articles above, they explain that while Martin Luther King used non-violent protests as a method of creating change, he did it in a way to provoke violence from his adversaries, to create sympathy for his movement.

    The Outliers

    If you saw any of these types of Memes on one of your chosen social media platforms, understand that this isn’t coming from the black lives matter groups. Trust me, there are a lot of people who are using this protesting time as an opportunity. There are rogue players out there that want to see us all at odds with each other.

    To think that Black American’s are not veteran’s, and equal members of our society is the problem. The meme above disgraces Blacks, Whites, Asians, Hispanics, and all other ethnicities and creeds. But this meme was meant to divide us. Don’t be fooled.

    The Biggest Change will come in your Heart.

    There is a reality that many of us live in a semi segregated society. Sure we encounter people who look different than ourself on occasion. But how many of us have neighbors that are People of Color? What are your experiences with Black people, or if you are Black, of White people? People who live in more densely populated areas probably have more regular interactions with people of all ethnicities, and that is a good thing.

    We have to remember that people are individuals, Love each person for who they are. Get to know your neighbors. Get to understand that people have different life experiences that have brought them to this moment in time and you may very well be fortunate enough to make this friend.

    It’s not easy to change decades of prejudice and hate over night. But we can do it.

    BLM, Kaepernick and the Police

    Just in case you thought I missed it, let’s highlight one important thing. This issue is about institutionalize racism in police departments nation wide. This is the problem that the Black Lives Matter group is trying to solve. People are tired of police officers killing Black people. There simply is not video after video of other minorities that have been brutally mishandled by police officers in the way that Black people have in the US, nation wide. Kaepernick tried to highlight the problem protesting in the NFL, but audience which tends to be Conservative White men couldn’t hear the message, and just saw him spitting on their beloved flag, which of course he did NOT do at all.

    Was this the catalyst to bring the change in America that is needed? I hope this is it. I really hope we don’t need another Black person to die at the hands of police to fix the problem. Police should be there to uphold the law. They should protect and serve. We need police in our society, just as we need firemen, and all other public servants. But they work for us. When I was in the Navy, I remembered that it was an honor and a privilege to be a member of the Armed Forces.

    There needs to be a national code of conduct for police. Treating everyone fair and equally under the law. Should be part of it.

    This moment in time

    It’s hard in this moment in time. There are so many moving parts to the world happening. It is not just this one thing and sometimes it is just one thing. But the barrage of imagery showing violence can bring you down. The barrage of imagery of people losing their jobs, and masks and isolation can bring you down. We are more divided than ever.

    In this moment in time, say no more.

    In this moment in time, say I will not let hate divide me. In this moment in time be the best human being you can be, and bring about the positive change in the world that helps the betterment of all humankind.

  • It’s Taco Tuesday

    So it’s Taco Tuesday. I had tacos for lunch, then couldn’t think what I wanted for dinner, so I had tacos again. I made them at home, so it wasn’t like I went out to eat. The truth is I’m not eating out all that much. I have leftovers for tomorrow as well. I could make Mexican, but I have baked pasta that I will be making. I also picked up a few things over at the store today and so I’ll have good things to make at home.

    Some things I’ve seen on “the twitter…”

    I really loved reading this blog post today. Is someone from your Soul Tribe?

    I’m getting my runs happening and trying to get outside as much as possible. Even a few minutes at the beach is worth it. Tomorrow its another great beach day I’m sure, and hoping to get more sun. Staying active is what it’s all about.

  • Your Memes and thoughts for Monday

    Well hello Monday. Here is the Rabbit hole of things happening right now.

    • The Corona Virus aka COVID-19 Shitshow continues.
    • The market ironically is doing better now, even though America hasn’t reopened.
    • 14+% Unemployment in America
    • Jerry Stiller, Father of Ben Stiller passed away, he was 92.
    • The weather in central Florida is partly cloudy and 74°F.

    If you haven’t gone out today. Get out of your place and walk around. The air is not toxic. The world is still a great place. We can do all the right things and still not live in fear. Some times doing the right thing is about helping others so they don’t get sick.

    OK, I promised Memes and things. So here we go.

    And here are some inspirational thoughts and thoughts about relationships and love.

    It’s Monday… Let’s make it a good one! ?. I’ll get this blog figured out with consistency soon enight.

  • The Art of War!

    The art of war, by Sun Tzu is a great work of strategy. I recently gave a speech on the topic for Toastmasters. Here is a run down of what I learned from his writings, and maybe it can help you too. Written 3-Sept-2002

    War! What is it good for?!

    Sun-Tzu said in Calculations – Warfare is the way of deception. Therefore if able, apear unable, if active, appear not active, if near, appear far…

    In other words, don’t let your competition know what you will do.

    Sun-Tzu said in Doing Battle – When doing battle, seek a quick victory. A protracted battle will blunt weapons and dampen ardor.

    Set acheivable short term goals and use them to attain your long term goals.

    Sun-Tzu said in Planning Attacks – in warfare, keeping a nation intact is best, destroying a nation second best…

    In politics or relationships, it is better to win without destroying your opposition.

    Sun-Tzu said in Formation – Those skilled in warfare make themsleves invincible and then wait for the enemy to become vulnerable.

    Create a situation were you can protect yourself and be on the ready to attack when your opponet becomes open, like in Chess.

    Sun-Tzu said in Force – Commanding many is like commanding a few… It is a matter of communications through flags and pennants.

    Get the word out! and let everyone subordinate to you know that word so you can operate in a cohesive environment.

    Sun-Tzu said in Weakness and strength – He who occupies the battlefield awaiting the enemy is at ease; the one who comes later and rushes into battle is fatigued.

    Get ready to fight a war before your in a war

    Sun-Tzu said in Armed Struggle – There is nothing more difficult than armed struggle.

    This points right to a solid chain of command and breakdowns in communication. The real crux is, try to win without Armed Struggle, this is a last resort. Keep the hostle takeovers to a minimum.

    Sun-Tzu said in Nine Changes – Do not depend on the ememy not coming, but depend on our readiness against him.

    He really means, be ready for anything. That’s kind of like Murphy’s law.

    Sun-Tzu said in Army Maneuvers – consolidate your strength, calculate the enemy and get support from your men.

    United we stand, Divided we fall! Doesn’t that say it all?

    Sun-Tzu said in Ground Formation – Know the enemy and yourself, then the victory is not at risk.

    Know your battlefield! Knowledge is power.

    Sun-Tzu said in Nine Grounds – If an enemy presents and opportunity, take advantage of it.

    This goes right back to exploit your opponent’s weakness and keep at it.

    Sun-Tzu said in Fire Attacks -If it is not advantageous, do not move.

    But be led into traps, Be watchful.

    Finally…

    Sun-Tzu said in Using Spies – Enlightend rulers and good generals who are able to obtain intelligent agents as spies are certain for great achievements. This is essential for warfare, and what the army depends on to move.

    The best information is what helps to win the war, and many times without firing a single shot.

    Check out! Sonshi.com The Art of War Website for a complete guide. quotes were taken from this website, and I editorialized the meaning. 🙂

  • Sleepin’ to dream

    Reposted from my old live journal – 30th-Jun-2002 09:12 pm

    These arms are tired, and require rest,
    This body is tired and requires rest.
    Sleep is the fix for the pains of the day.
    Sleep is the answer for total exhaustion.
    Sleep is the refreshing solution,
    It’s seven parts deep sleep, one part REM.
    And when I pass into the realm of dreams,
    Where I meet people that never were,
    And see the things that never was,
    I will know I have much more to reach for.

    Even when you sleep with someone else,
    You still are by yourself.
    Your partner can’t travel with you down,
    Where your deepest secrets lie.
    The place where you are not in control,
    The place where you know you’ve met the spirits,
    And they communicate with you in metaphores.

    And now it’s time to wake up.
    -SJX

  • What are you watching?

    So we have been stuck at home. The power is on, the A/C is working. Hopefully we have food and drink and now, people are just sitting around. Many people are tired and just watching TV. So what are you watching?

    How do you watch?

    There are so many different ways to watch TV these days. It is interesting that we even call it TV. Short for television, but that term in an of itself is a throwback to a time when shows were broadcasted over the air, hence the idea of the TV Show.

    These devices in our homes and everywhere are all screens. They don’t really have receivers in them anymore. And now we watch on our phones, our tablets our computers, gas station pumps, the backs of airplane seats, and big flat screens in our homes.

    There was a time that we recorded TV shows on personal video tape, (VHS). And we would save hours and hours of recordings. I’m sure people have lots of video tape sitting around that they will never look at again. We rented videos at stores like libraries, which eventually made way for the advent of the DVD, digital video disc, then the high resolution format of Blu-Ray.

    Technology has gotten better and better and our ability to transmit data to everyone around the world at higher bandwidths continue to push the limits of providing digital entertainment to the world.

    Now we have WiFi built in to our TV’s rather than over the air receivers. 1080P is the standard resolution and we look at everything in higher and higher resolutions, but even more than that, everything is in a wide format such as 16:9 letterbox, similar to a cinematic experience.

    Providers of content have shown up with Apps and boxes, whether it is an AppleTV, Amazon Fire, or Roku, which are just some of the devices. Even the PlayStation offers streaming capabilities and apps.

    BUT WHAT ARE WE WATCHING?

    So does it matter where you get your content?

    • Buy Movies
    • Netflix
    • Amazon Prime
    • Hulu
    • AppleTV
    • Disney+
    • HBO
    • ShowTime
    • Starz

    The list goes on and on, and each service is needed to see that one thing that you want to see. There is no single place to find all the content. You have to pay a fee for each service and every month, so before you know it you are paying for cable and another $40 in steaming services that you can’t get on cable.

    I’m watching or watched…

    • The Mandalorian – Disney+
    • Outlander – Starz
    • Lucifer – Netflix
    • Normal People – Hulu
    • Discovery of Witches – Sundance
    • Picard – CBS All Access
    • Marvelous Mrs. Maisel = Amazon Prime
    • 100 Humans – Netflix
    • Lost in Space (New) – Hulu
    • Brain Games – Disney+
    • The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina – Netflix
    • Stranger Things – Netflix
    • Orange is the New Black – Netflix (if you missed it)
    • The Outerlimits – Hulu
    • 11.22.63 – Hulu (Original miniseries)
    • Mrs. America – Hulu
    • Hunters – Amazon Prime
    • Good Omens – Amazon Prime
    • The Tick – Amazon Prime
    • The Banker (A film) – AppleTV
    • Amazing Stories – AppleTV
    • For All Mankind – AppleTV

    There is a lot to be watching, if you are bored. Trust me this is a tiny tiny list. And this doesn’t even start to get into Movies for the most part, which you can buy online and have ready at a moments notice. While you can find many recent movies that go from sale to streaming. Older movies that you may want to watch start to fall off streaming services and quickly become unavailable other than to buy, which makes getting a $5 movie for streaming an attractive way to build a library, and in some cases you can find bundles of movies, 10 for $20 on sale here and there.

    Screens are here to stay. The longer we find ourselves “Self quarantining” the more use our screens will get. I don’t think it is a bad thing, as long as we balance it with other activities throughout our day.